So, it's worked out, I can leave this Sunday, Monday to Valdosta, GA to see my best friend.
And all I can say....is "can I hit Savannah.....?"
Tonight, I said goodbye to a dear friend of four years. In summer of 2004, when my life was in total upheaval, and loss was coming rapidly for me, I met Kat. Bleach blond, stringy, wild, crazy, happy, common sense no where to be found, going for her P.h.d in Marketing research theory (consumer theory) or some such. But this little goth girl...getting a P.h.d? How could this be?
In four years, she changed so much. When she traveled, she left the care of all that she holds dear to me, her cats, her ferrets, and the beloved Harley. When she needed me to tell her the truth, even when she never wanted to hear it, I told her. And that's why, I'm the only and the youngest "Broad" that she's ever met. Compliment to me, since I love broads (Bette Midler, Joy Behar, Stockard Channing, Carol Burnett) She was the girl who showed up at my baby shower, at Fred's first birthday with a flaming red mowhawk with jingle bell earrings and sweater to match...that's my friend Kat. Fred was the first child she had ever touched...only cause she was touching her. But I watched as Kat touched her and interacted with her, I looked on going " do you realize, you just touched her and held her, with no fear?" She didn't know she was capable.
So the girl picks bad girls. There was a time when I wanted her to pick me, but hey, she saw I was in love with the bloke I married...plus, I wasn't her type. (though now, she may reconsider finding another girl like me:)
Kat received her P.h.d on June 13th, 2008 alongside of Kayte (P.h.d in some sort of biology/chemistry that I'll never understand) and Chris's best friend since childhood (his Masters in Business Administration (the guy if she were straight she said she'd marry on the spot the day we 'got hitched'. ) I was so proud of all three. But really, really proud of her. She had a tough time personnally while here in Cincy. She's traveled the world- over 50 countries, most of the US, but she's never met a more loyal friend than me. Yes, I toot my own horn, but I love this girl alot. I'm gonna miss her. But I now am taking care of her ferret Andy (Andromeda), whom is now apart of our family, and reminds me of her everyday. I will love visiting her in Cali- cause I've never been. But I'm going to miss her drama, her laughter, her smile and most of all, my friend.
